How to Defuse the DIVORCE BOMB

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb

Learn how to stop the downward spiral of your marriage by becoming a calm, confident, and attractive man.

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What men are saying about HDDB

Absolute Gold!!

Dave Rhodes

Steve and Time have delivered a masterclass course here on becoming a better man. Every minute is filled with thoughtful and insightful knowledge based on ye...

Steve and Time have delivered a masterclass course here on becoming a better man. Every minute is filled with thoughtful and insightful knowledge based on years of experience in helping men with their relationship challenges. I have only completed this first module and can already see positive changes within myself but also in my relationship. Thank you Tim and Steve for this amazing course!! Dave R

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I Wish I knew this stuff 10 years ago

Neal Greenspan

This course is an eye-opening ride where every lesson, every call, every resource, book and conversation taught me something new. Something I could USE to be...

This course is an eye-opening ride where every lesson, every call, every resource, book and conversation taught me something new. Something I could USE to become the man I always wanted to be. Something nobody else ever told me and what I wished I knew 10 years ago. I will definitely be passing this wisdom along to my sons (and daughter, though in a different way) By the time I was done, I was feeling so good about who I was, where I was going and who I was going to be, I KNEW I was going to be awesome, with my wife or without her.

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Amazing!

Brian Carew

I will be listening to this course over and over again. I've enjoyed this so much and will continue to reference as I grow into a better version of myself. T...

I will be listening to this course over and over again. I've enjoyed this so much and will continue to reference as I grow into a better version of myself. Thank you Steve and Tim. This should be required for every man out there!

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Excellent

Bruce Dale

I like the message of being seated in our own energy. To firstly know who we are and to go after what we want. Unapologetic about who we are. The growth bei...

I like the message of being seated in our own energy. To firstly know who we are and to go after what we want. Unapologetic about who we are. The growth being in developing our own maturity to know our place in the world and to operate from a place of love. Love firstly for ourselves because when we love ourselves we can then truly love others. Thank you for these reminders tgat we need to seat ourselves in our energy

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Just what I needed

Phil Orton

I started out so anxious, gut wrenching pain, overthinking and anxious. I couldn't see a way forward. I toyed with the idea of joining this for a n umber of ...

I started out so anxious, gut wrenching pain, overthinking and anxious. I couldn't see a way forward. I toyed with the idea of joining this for a n umber of weeks, watching the videos that Steve sends out through emails/ YouTube etc. The messages there were making me feel calmer and providing some clarity, also a way forward that I bought in to. The programme has been the change I needed and has helped me set sail on mu own ship. Steve and Tim deliver it expertly, their down to earth and no BS, would highly recommend for other guys that want to take control of their lives.

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Program Modules and Lessons

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1. WELCOME from Tim and Steve
2. JOIN Our Completely Private, Secret Facebook Group
1. TOC
1. What To Read
2. Download "Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband" by Steve Horsmon
3. Download "My Wife Wants Space!" guidebook by Tim Wade
1. LIVE HDDB Q&A Schedule 2025
2. 6-18-25 How to "Let Go" Without Walking Away
3. 5-21-25 Why the Fear of Divorce is Causing Your Divorce
4. 4-23-25 The Deep, Dark, Underbelly of Jealousy
5. 3-19-25 How to Stay Positive and Offer Her Something Better
6. 2-19-25 Marriage Counseling...Yes or No??
7. 1-22-25 Why you must know you will not settle
8. 12-18-24 How do you tell your wife about your men’s work or do you tell her at all?
9. 11-20-24 Should I make my wife read Alison Armstrong’s books and why this is a stupid question?
10. 10-16-24 The REAL Reason You’re Not Getting the Affection and Intimacy You Crave
11. 9-18-24 How to Survive and Even Thrive Through Divorce
12. 8-14-24 How to Tame the Monkey Mind and Get Some Inner Peace
13. 7-17-24 How do you NOT GIVE A F*CK and not be an ass?
14. 6-19-24 Are You Pissed Off??? What to THINK, SAY and DO when she seems to be making everything difficult.
15. 5-15-24 NUTs! Non-Negotiable Unalterable Terms. What are yours?
16. 4-17-24 What Does 'Get a Life' Really Mean...and How Do You Do It Without Giving Up on Her?
17. 3-20-24 Why Isn't SHE Pulling Her Weight (aka. When will she care about MY needs?)
18. 2-21-24 The Top Ten "Yeah, buts...." That Sabotage Our Thinking and Our Progress
19. 1-17-24 How to Cope with the Trauma of Divorce
20. 12-13-23 Stepping Out of Her Bubble, Getting Off Her Rollercoaster, and Detaching From the Femometer Are Not Easy. (But It’s Worth It!)
21. 11-15-23 Things Have Been HORRIBLE Between Us....and Also...We're Not Having Sex!
22. 10-18-23 From Divorce Bomb to You 2.0: The Road to Becoming a Great Man
23. 9-20-23 The Icy Chill of Stonewalling and How To Stay in the Game Without Freaking Out All the Time
24. 8-23-23 How Long Should I Wait??
25. 7-12-23 Back to Basics: Kindness 101
26. 6-14-23 What "Pressure and Release" Looks Like In a Relationship
27. 5-17-23 She's Your Lover, Not Your Mother
28. 4-19-23 Emotional Availability and Emotional Safety
29. 3-8-23 How to Lighten the F*&^ Up When Everything Feels So Heavy
30. 2-8-23 All About Anger Management
31. 1-11-23 Your Brain is a Liar...and We Can Prove It!
32. 12-14-22 Leaving It All On The Field In Marriage & Divorce
33. 11-16-22 How to Stay In Your Lane When Her Mixed Messages Keep Pushing You Out Of It
34. 10-19-22 I Thought Things Were Getting Better But She is Still So Disconnected
35. 9-21-22 But I Don't Know If We'll Be Together!
36. 8-16-22 Fathering Kids of All Ages During Conflict, Separation or Divorce
37. 7-13-22 You’re okay...You’re Really Going to Be Okay
38. 6-15-22 LIVE Q&A Call
39. 5-18-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
40. 4-13-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
41. 3-16-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
42. 2-9-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
43. 1-12-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
44. 11-17-21 LIVE Q&A CALL
45. 10-20-21 LIVE Q&A CALL
46. 9-15-21 LIVE Q&A CALL
47. 8-18-21 LIVE Q&A Call
48. 7-21-21 LIVE Q&A Call
49. 6-17-21 LIVE Q&A Call
50. 5-19-21 LIVE Q&A Call
51. 4-21-21 LIVE Q&A Call
52. 3-17-21 LIVE Q&A Call
53. 2-17-21 LIVE Q&A Call
54. 1-20-21 LIVE Q&A Call
55. 11-18-20 LIVE Q&A Call
56. 10-14-20 LIVE Q&A Call
57. 09-16-20 LIVE Q&A Call
58. 08-12-20 LIVE Q&A Call
59. 06-17-20 LIVE Q&A Call
60. 05-13-20 LIVE Q&A Call
61. 04-15-20 LIVE Q&A Call
62. 02-19-20 LIVE Q&A Call
63. 03-25-20 LIVE Q&A Call
64. 01-22-20 LIVE Q&A Call
65. 12-18-19 LIVE Q&A Call
66. 11-27-19 LIVE Q&A Call
67. 10-30-19 LIVE Q&A Call
68. 9-25-19 LIVE Q&A Call
69. 8-28-19 LIVE Q&A Call
1. MENU
1. LESSON 1-1: We Know Exactly How You Feel and We WILL Help You
2. LESSON 1-2: How Could This Happen With No Warning? (And What to Do Starting Now)
3. LESSON 1-3: How to Handle Your Fearful Thoughts, Anger, Desperation and Anxiety
4. LESSON 1-4: How to Relax and Start Responding More Attractively
5. LESSON 1-5: How to Feel More Confident and Detach From Her Drama
6. LESSON 1-6: Feeling More Like a Mountain Lion and Less Like a Hummingbird
7. LESSON 1-7: STOP THAT! and START THIS - The Things You Must Do NOW
8. LESSON 1-8: Deep Breath Brother: Here’s What You’ve Learned So Far
1. LESSON 2-1: Stop Arguing About Stupid Shit
2. LESSON 2-2: Arguments About Sex: Let’s Go Deeper
3. LESSON 2-3: How to Be a More Effective Man During Conflicts
4. LESSON 2-4: Learn to Grin in the Face of DRAMA
5. LESSON 2-5: The Four Deadly Habits You Must Stop Now
6. LESSON 2-6: Use Your Mind to Reverse Negative Feelings
7. LESSON 2-7: How to Respond in Ways that Build Trust and Connections
8. LESSON 2-8: How the Confident Man Uses Arguments to INCREASE Attraction
9. LESSON 2-9: STOP THAT! AND START THIS -- Becoming the Man You Want to Be
10. LESSON 2-10: You Can Do This...Even if She Isn’t Playing
1. LESSON 3-1: What if You Felt Cool, Clear, Calm and Unapologetic at This Moment?
2. LESSON 3-2: How to Become an Amazing Mountain Lion of a Man
3. LESSON 3-3: How to Get Clear on What You Want and ASK For It
4. LESSON 3-4: Decoding What Women Want (It’s Really Not That Complicated)
5. LESSON 3-5: The Mojo Mindset You Need to Deal EFFECTIVELY With Sexual Tension and Rejection
6. LESSON 3-6: STOP THAT! AND START THIS -- Becoming More You and More Attractive
7. LESSON 3-7: The #1 Promise You Must Make to Yourself
1. LESSON 4-1: Imagining a Life So Great It Makes You Nervous...But Excited!
2. LESSON 4-2: WHO You Need to Be and HOW You to Need to Be Even When You’re in Limbo
3. LESSON 4-3: Charting Your Ship’s Course (and Knowing When to Make Her Walk the Plank)
4. LESSON 4-4: Pushing the Edge and Moving Forward
5. LESSON 4-5: Be the Creator of Your Own Story
1. WTF is NSFW?
2. Beware of Limboland!
3. How to Not Become a Second Class Citizen
4. Why You Must Know You Will NOT Settle
5. The Straight Talk About Infidelity
6. When a Stranger Says, "Wow! You're an amazing man!"
1. "I Want Patience and I Want It RIGHT NOW!!"
2. How to Be a Rock Star Dad During Separation and Divorce
3. Is Marriage Counseling a Waste of Time? (A Cautionary Tale)
4. My Buddy Booze and His Pal Pot (Two Friends You May Need to Avoid)
5. Cheating Cheaters and Lying Liars! (What to Think and Do When You Find Out About Her Affair)
1. LIVE TRIBE MENU PAGE
2. 12 No Bullsh*t Rules for a Better Life -- Tim Wade
3. The 6 Building Blocks of Loving Connection - Tim Wade
4. Top 5 Marriage Blindspots That Take Men by Surprise- Jeff Allen
5. How to Be the Best Version of You Every Single Day -- Tim Wade
6. When Should I Start Dating Again?! - Roundtable with Special Guest Wayne Levine
7. 3 Counter-Intuitive Things That Can Very Quickly Change Your Marriage -- Mark Drezga
8. Your Wife Won't Change Until Her Bad Behavior Stops Working -- Jeff Allen
9. Stop Letting Anxiety and Nervous Behavior Disrupt Your Relationship (and your life) -- Tim Wade
10. Special Guest Rachael Jayne Groover Talks About the Art of Presence and Unshakeable Inner Peace
11. How To Re-Engage In Life, Love, And Sexuality From An Attractive New Frame Of Confidence And Self-Respect -- Jeff Allen
12. How to Deal with Your Avoidant Wife -- Tim Wade
13. Should I Fight for My Marriage or Just Give Up? (and are there any other choices?)
14. I Acted Needy and Pushed Her Away... Now What? - Jeff Allen
15. Why Marriage Saving Advice Isn’t Working for You - Mark Drezga & Garrett Prettyman
16. Menopause! What Happened to the Woman I Married? - Tim Wade
17. How to Get Her to Change (and it's not what you think) - Tim Wade
18. How to Connect with a Highly Sensitive Woman - Jeff Allen
19. Stop Fighting Once and For All - Tim Wade
20. Survive Limbo and Grow Your Masculine Self - Jeff Allen
21. Being In Your Masculine Frame - Jeff Allen
22. Self-Mastery: The Key to Creating a Life Worth Living -- Tim Wade
23. What to Do About Valentine's Day (and other holiday hellscapes) - Tim Wade
24. Why Doesn't She Want to Have Sex with Me? - Tim Wade
25. You Might as Well Be You, Everyone Else is Taken -- Tim Wade 6-17-21
26. The Surprising Secret to Creating Instant Intimacy (How to Listen with Empathy)-- Tim Wade
27. Every Breath You Take - The Power of Breath Work - Dennis Collins
28. The "Simple" Key to Getting More Love and Affection - Tim Wade
29. From Selfish to Attractive - Charlie McKeever
30. This One Thing Is the Very Foundation of Your Relationship (Trust Me) -- Tim Wade
31. Being a Rockstar Dad -- Tim Wade
32. How to Master Your Emotions and Change Your Life -- Tim Wade
33. Be a Progress Powerhouse -- Mark Drezga
34. Become More Attractive by Getting a Life, Making a Plan, and Being Unapologetic - Tim Wade
35. Making it Through the Holidays (Relatively) Unscathed - Tim Wade
36. Calm Confident Unapologetic YOU - Tim Wade
37. What Do You Do with Your Desire for SEX When You're Not Having It? - Shana James
38. Change Your Mind, Change Your Life -Tim Wade
39. How to Be More Emotionally Regulated...and Attractive --Steve Horsman and Dan Dore
40. How to Roll with a Cold-Hot-Cold Wife - Tim Wade
41. Polarity and Attraction: How to Create It Anytime You Want - Dan Dore and Alexis
42. Make Her Fall In Love With You Again Every Day -- Jeff Allen
43. Become a More Confident and Satisfied Lover and Leader -- Shana James
44. The HOW of Being a Mountain Lion - Tim Wade
45. Acceptance: The Key to Feeling Strong and Confident -- Steve Horsmon and Dan Dore
46. How to Survive Separation - 10 Counterintuitive Commandments - Tim Wade
47. Living an Unapologetic Life -- Taitsiak Heilmann
48. Get HER to Chase YOU in the Bedroom -- Jeff Allen
49. How to Have Clarity in Times of Chaos -- Steve Horsmon, Tim Wade and Dan Dore
50. How to BE Vulnerable Without Pushing Her Away -- Mark Drezga
51. Happy f&$king holidays! -- Dennis Collins
52. Mastering Connection With Women - Dan Dore and Dr Alexis Shepperd
53. Dennis Collins – How to Reignite the Passion in Your Marriage!
54. Dan Dore and Dr Alexis Shepperd – The Levels of Intimate Conversation
55. Steve Horsmon and Dan Dore – Being The Prize
56. Tim Wade - How to Stop Being Continually Pissed Off at Her
57. Mark Drezga – Live Q & A with a genuine HDM (Happily Divorced Man)
58. Tim Wade -- How to Get Out of Limbo Land Permanently
59. Jeff Allen – Be Better than 99% of Lovers
60. Taitsiak Heilmann – What About the Children
61. Dennis Collins: Exploration of the Erotic
62. Jeff Allen - Transform Anger into More Sex
63. Shana James Sex Dojo - How to Confidently Ask for What You Want – Even the Scary Stuff
64. Steve, Dan and Elliott Katz - Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants
65. Mark Drezga – Why You’re Not Satisfied In Your Life And Relationship
66. Why Having Men in Your Life is Crucial - Neal Greenspan
67. Is My Wife Cheating? How to Check Her Phone and Why You Shouldn’t - Taitsiak Heilman
68. Losing Everything in Divorce a Man’s Worst Fear - Dennis Collins
69. Get More Hugs, Kisses, Affection and Sex - Jeff Allen & Cynthia Kruse
70. What Creates Excitement and Interest in Her Body -Dan & Alexis Sheppard