How to Defuse the DIVORCE BOMB

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb

Learn how to stop the downward spiral of your marriage by becoming a calm, confident, and attractive man.

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What men are saying about HDDB

Absolute Gold!!

Dave Rhodes

Steve and Time have delivered a masterclass course here on becoming a better man. Every minute is filled with thoughtful and insightful knowledge based on ye...

Steve and Time have delivered a masterclass course here on becoming a better man. Every minute is filled with thoughtful and insightful knowledge based on years of experience in helping men with their relationship challenges. I have only completed this first module and can already see positive changes within myself but also in my relationship. Thank you Tim and Steve for this amazing course!! Dave R

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I Wish I knew this stuff 10 years ago

Neal Greenspan

This course is an eye-opening ride where every lesson, every call, every resource, book and conversation taught me something new. Something I could USE to be...

This course is an eye-opening ride where every lesson, every call, every resource, book and conversation taught me something new. Something I could USE to become the man I always wanted to be. Something nobody else ever told me and what I wished I knew 10 years ago. I will definitely be passing this wisdom along to my sons (and daughter, though in a different way) By the time I was done, I was feeling so good about who I was, where I was going and who I was going to be, I KNEW I was going to be awesome, with my wife or without her.

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Amazing!

Brian Carew

I will be listening to this course over and over again. I've enjoyed this so much and will continue to reference as I grow into a better version of myself. T...

I will be listening to this course over and over again. I've enjoyed this so much and will continue to reference as I grow into a better version of myself. Thank you Steve and Tim. This should be required for every man out there!

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Excellent

Bruce Dale

I like the message of being seated in our own energy. To firstly know who we are and to go after what we want. Unapologetic about who we are. The growth bei...

I like the message of being seated in our own energy. To firstly know who we are and to go after what we want. Unapologetic about who we are. The growth being in developing our own maturity to know our place in the world and to operate from a place of love. Love firstly for ourselves because when we love ourselves we can then truly love others. Thank you for these reminders tgat we need to seat ourselves in our energy

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Just what I needed

Phil Orton

I started out so anxious, gut wrenching pain, overthinking and anxious. I couldn't see a way forward. I toyed with the idea of joining this for a n umber of ...

I started out so anxious, gut wrenching pain, overthinking and anxious. I couldn't see a way forward. I toyed with the idea of joining this for a n umber of weeks, watching the videos that Steve sends out through emails/ YouTube etc. The messages there were making me feel calmer and providing some clarity, also a way forward that I bought in to. The programme has been the change I needed and has helped me set sail on mu own ship. Steve and Tim deliver it expertly, their down to earth and no BS, would highly recommend for other guys that want to take control of their lives.

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Program Modules and Lessons

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1. WELCOME from Tim and Steve
2. JOIN Our Completely Private, Secret Facebook Group
1. MENU
1. What To Read
2. Download "Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband" by Steve Horsmon
1. LIVE HDDB Q&A Schedule 2024
2. 6-19-24 Are You Pissed Off??? What to THINK, SAY and DO when she seems to be making everything difficult.
3. 5-15-24 NUTs!
4. 4-17-24 What Does 'Get a Life' Really Mean...and How Do You Do It Without Giving Up on Her?
5. 3-20-24 Why Isn't SHE Pulling Her Weight (aka. When will she care about MY needs?)
6. 2-21-24 The Top Ten "Yeah, buts...." That Sabotage Our Thinking and Our Progress
7. 1-17-24 How to Cope with the Trauma of Divorce
8. 12-13-23 Stepping Out of Her Bubble, Getting Off Her Rollercoaster, and Detaching From the Femometer Are Not Easy. (But It’s Worth It!)
9. 11-15-23 Things Have Been HORRIBLE Between Us....and Also...We're Not Having Sex!
10. 10-18-23 From Divorce Bomb to You 2.0: The Road to Becoming a Great Man
11. 9-20-23 The Icy Chill of Stonewalling and How To Stay in the Game Without Freaking Out All the Time
12. 8-23-23 How Long Should I Wait??
13. 7-12-23 Back to Basics: Kindness 101
14. 6-14-23 What "Pressure and Release" Looks Like In a Relationship
15. 5-17-23 She's Your Lover, Not Your Mother
16. 4-19-23 Emotional Availability and Emotional Safety
17. 3-8-23 How to Lighten the F*&^ Up When Everything Feels So Heavy
18. 2-8-23 All About Anger Management
19. 1-11-23 Your Brain is a Liar...and We Can Prove It!
20. 12-14-22 Leaving It All On The Field In Marriage & Divorce
21. 11-16-22 How to Stay In Your Lane When Her Mixed Messages Keep Pushing You Out Of It
22. 10-19-22 I Thought Things Were Getting Better But She is Still So Disconnected
23. 9-21-22 But I Don't Know If We'll Be Together!
24. 8-16-22 Fathering Kids of All Ages During Conflict, Separation or Divorce
25. 7-13-22 You’re okay...You’re Really Going to Be Okay
26. 6-15-22 LIVE Q&A Call
27. 5-18-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
28. 4-13-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
29. 3-16-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
30. 2-9-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
31. 1-12-22 LIVE Q&A CALL
32. 11-17-21 LIVE Q&A CALL
33. 10-20-21 LIVE Q&A CALL
34. 9-15-21 LIVE Q&A CALL
35. 8-18-21 LIVE Q&A Call
36. 7-21-21 LIVE Q&A Call
37. 6-17-21 LIVE Q&A Call
38. 5-19-21 LIVE Q&A Call
39. 4-21-21 LIVE Q&A Call
40. 3-17-21 LIVE Q&A Call
41. 2-17-21 LIVE Q&A Call
42. 1-20-21 LIVE Q&A Call
43. 11-18-20 LIVE Q&A Call
44. 10-14-20 LIVE Q&A Call
45. 09-16-20 LIVE Q&A Call
46. 08-12-20 LIVE Q&A Call
47. 06-17-20 LIVE Q&A Call
48. 05-13-20 LIVE Q&A Call
49. 04-15-20 LIVE Q&A Call
50. 02-19-20 LIVE Q&A Call
51. 03-25-20 LIVE Q&A Call
52. 01-22-20 LIVE Q&A Call
53. 12-18-19 LIVE Q&A Call
54. 11-27-19 LIVE Q&A Call
55. 10-30-19 LIVE Q&A Call
56. 9-25-19 LIVE Q&A Call
57. 8-28-19 LIVE Q&A Call
1. MENU
1. LESSON 1-1: We Know Exactly How You Feel and We WILL Help You
2. LESSON 1-2: How Could This Happen With No Warning? (And What to Do Starting Now)
3. LESSON 1-3: How to Handle Your Fearful Thoughts, Anger, Desperation and Anxiety
4. LESSON 1-4: How to Relax and Start Responding More Attractively
5. LESSON 1-5: How to Feel More Confident and Detach From Her Drama
6. LESSON 1-6: Feeling More Like a Mountain Lion and Less Like a Hummingbird
7. LESSON 1-7: STOP THAT! and START THIS - The Things You Must Do NOW
8. LESSON 1-8: Deep Breath Brother: Here’s What You’ve Learned So Far
1. LESSON 2-1: Stop Arguing About Stupid Shit
2. LESSON 2-2: Arguments About Sex: Let’s Go Deeper
3. LESSON 2-3: How to Be a More Effective Man During Conflicts
4. LESSON 2-4: Learn to Grin in the Face of DRAMA
5. LESSON 2-5: The Four Deadly Habits You Must Stop Now
6. LESSON 2-6: Use Your Mind to Reverse Negative Feelings
7. LESSON 2-7: How to Respond in Ways that Build Trust and Connections
8. LESSON 2-8: How the Confident Man Uses Arguments to INCREASE Attraction
9. LESSON 2-9: STOP THAT! AND START THIS -- Becoming the Man You Want to Be
10. LESSON 2-10: You Can Do This...Even if She Isn’t Playing
1. LESSON 3-1: What if You Felt Cool, Clear, Calm and Unapologetic at This Moment?
2. LESSON 3-2: How to Become an Amazing Mountain Lion of a Man
3. LESSON 3-3: How to Get Clear on What You Want and ASK For It
4. LESSON 3-4: Decoding What Women Want (It’s Really Not That Complicated)
5. LESSON 3-5: The Mojo Mindset You Need to Deal EFFECTIVELY With Sexual Tension and Rejection
6. LESSON 3-6: STOP THAT! AND START THIS -- Becoming More You and More Attractive
7. LESSON 3-7: The #1 Promise You Must Make to Yourself
1. LESSON 4-1: Imagining a Life So Great It Makes You Nervous...But Excited!
2. LESSON 4-2: Who You Need to Be and How You to Need to Be Even When You’re in Limbo
3. LESSON 4-3: Charting Your Ship’s Course (and Knowing When to Make Her Walk the Plank)
4. LESSON 4-4: Pushing the Edge and Moving Forward
5. LESSON 4-5: Be the Creator of Your Own Story
1. WTF is NSFW?
2. Beware of Limboland!
3. How to Not Become a Second Class Citizen
4. Why You Must Know You Will NOT Settle
5. The Straight Talk About Infidelity
6. When a Stranger Says, "Wow! You're an amazing man!"
1. "I Want Patience and I Want It RIGHT NOW!!"
2. How to Be a Rock Star Dad During Separation and Divorce
3. Is Marriage Counseling a Waste of Time? (A Cautionary Tale)
4. My Buddy Booze and His Pal Pot (Two Friends You May Need to Avoid)
5. Cheating Cheaters and Lying Liars! (What to Think and Do When You Find Out About Her Affair)
1. Stop Letting Anxiety and Nervous Behavior Disrupt Your Relationship (and your life) -- Tim Wade
2. Special Guest Rachael Jayne Groover Talks About the Art of Presence and Unshakeable Inner Peace
3. How To Re-Engage In Life, Love, And Sexuality From An Attractive New Frame Of Confidence And Self-Respect -- Jeff Allen
4. How to Deal with Your Avoidant Wife -- Tim Wade
5. Should I Fight for My Marriage or Just Give Up? (and are there any other choices?)
6. I Acted Needy and Pushed Her Away... Now What? - Jeff Allen
7. Why Marriage Saving Advice Isn’t Working for You - Mark Drezga & Garrett Prettyman
8. Menopause! What Happened to the Woman I Married? - Tim Wade
9. How to Get Her to Change (and it's not what you think) - Tim Wade
10. How to Connect with a Highly Sensitive Woman - Jeff Allen
11. Stop Fighting Once and For All - Tim Wade
12. Survive Limbo and Grow Your Masculine Self - Jeff Allen
13. Being In Your Masculine Frame - Jeff Allen
14. Self-Mastery: The Key to Creating a Life Worth Living -- Tim Wade
15. What to Do About Valentine's Day (and other holiday hellscapes) - Tim Wade
16. Why Doesn't She Want to Have Sex with Me? - Tim Wade
17. You Might as Well Be You, Everyone Else is Taken -- Tim Wade 6-17-21
18. The Surprising Secret to Creating Instant Intimacy (How to Listen with Empathy)-- Tim Wade
19. Every Breath You Take - The Power of Breath Work - Dennis Collins
20. The "Simple" Key to Getting More Love and Affection - Tim Wade
21. From Selfish to Attractive - Charlie McKeever
22. This One Thing Is the Very Foundation of Your Relationship (Trust Me) -- Tim Wade
23. Being a Rockstar Dad -- Tim Wade
24. How to Master Your Emotions and Change Your Life -- Tim Wade
25. Be a Progress Powerhouse -- Mark Drezga
26. Become More Attractive by Getting a Life, Making a Plan, and Being Unapologetic - Tim Wade
27. Making it Through the Holidays (Relatively) Unscathed - Tim Wade
28. Calm Confident Unapologetic YOU - Tim Wade
29. What Do You Do with Your Desire for SEX When You're Not Having It? - Shana James
30. Change Your Mind, Change Your Life -Tim Wade
31. How to Be More Emotionally Regulated...and Attractive --Steve Horsman and Dan Dore
32. How to Roll with a Cold-Hot-Cold Wife - Tim Wade
33. Polarity and Attraction: How to Create It Anytime You Want - Dan Dore and Alexis
34. Make Her Fall In Love With You Again Every Day -- Jeff Allen
35. Become a More Confident and Satisfied Lover and Leader -- Shana James
36. The HOW of Being a Mountain Lion - Tim Wade
37. Acceptance: The Key to Feeling Strong and Confident -- Steve Horsmon and Dan Dore
38. How to Survive Separation - 10 Counterintuitive Commandments - Tim Wade
39. Living an Unapologetic Life -- Taitsiak Heilmann
40. Get HER to Chase YOU in the Bedroom -- Jeff Allen
41. How to Have Clarity in Times of Chaos -- Steve Horsmon, Tim Wade and Dan Dore
42. How to BE Vulnerable Without Pushing Her Away -- Mark Drezga
43. Happy f&$king holidays! -- Dennis Collins
44. Mastering Connection With Women - Dan Dore and Dr Alexis Shepperd
45. Dennis Collins – How to Reignite the Passion in Your Marriage!
46. Dan Dore and Dr Alexis Shepperd – The Levels of Intimate Conversation
47. Steve Horsmon and Dan Dore – Being The Prize
48. Tim Wade - How to Stop Being Continually Pissed Off at Her
49. Mark Drezga – Live Q & A with a genuine HDM (Happily Divorced Man)
50. Tim Wade -- How to Get Out of Limbo Land Permanently
51. Jeff Allen – Be Better than 99% of Lovers
52. Taitsiak Heilmann – What About the Children
53. Dennis Collins: Exploration of the Erotic
54. Jeff Allen - Transform Anger into More Sex
55. Shana James Sex Dojo - How to Confidently Ask for What You Want – Even the Scary Stuff
56. Steve, Dan and Elliott Katz - Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants
57. Mark Drezga – Why You’re Not Satisfied In Your Life And Relationship
58. Why Having Men in Your Life is Crucial - Neal Greenspan
59. Is My Wife Cheating? How to Check Her Phone and Why You Shouldn’t - Taitsiak Heilman
60. Losing Everything in Divorce a Man’s Worst Fear - Dennis Collins
61. Get More Hugs, Kisses, Affection and Sex - Jeff Allen & Cynthia Kruse
62. What Creates Excitement and Interest in Her Body -Dan & Alexis Sheppard